AIBU to think there should be a new heading 'what did you do'? I reckon so because I am bemused by so many people saying LTB - or similar when they have a) never been in that position and b) if they had they probably wouldn't. These thoughts were a result of a discussion I had with a friend - we are both in a similar position regarding adult children and wanting them to leave home. How many people have said to us 'if he's giving you grief just kick them out' but if you are in this situation you wouldn't, because that is how they end up homeless, on the streets, on drugs etc. Every homeless person is someone's child. So I would like to be able to post in a section where the only people who reply have actually BEEN there. I know it won't happen but it would be interesting to see how the replies compare!