Does any woman ever actually want to see a dick pic?

[Echobelly]

I really don't get why men sent dick pics unless they're just being abusive bastard who wants to impose himself on a woman and upset her? But I see evidence online that there are guys who still think a woman might be pleased by one and not totally put off.

Does any woman ever ask to see one? Do blokes think women will be flattered that he has a hard-on for her or something?

Be interested to know if anyone has actually asked, has been pleased by one? Cos for the life of me I can't see why!

Eeewww. Not a pretty sight.

I’ve asked for them and liked receiving them.

Different folk like different things 🤷‍♀️

Gross, nope, always been a turn off and every time a guy had sent me one he has been blocked.

I think if I was single, and opened up my inbox to find a dick pic from a random I’d be very “eww” about it - I think that is beyond creepy.
But if I’m sexting with my DH, I’m not taken aback by it. In that situation it’s not unsolicited.

It’s very situationally dependant for me.

Expressly asking for one and just being sent one with no warning are two totally different things. Plenty of women find penises attractive or sexy or whatever. But plenty more will hate receiving unasked-for dick pics, especially when it's the first or second message they receive.

I doubt many women have sent a picture of their tits or vag as an opener (eew) on dating sites, unless they are only looking for a shag.

I suppose it's one way to filter out prospective partners, but I do wonder why blokes think it's an appropriate way to start a conversation!

If it’s unsolicited and out of context then it’s offputting, I didn’t ask for it so don’t sssume it’s what I want. If I am sexting, then it’s a different case. Most men are crap photographers and don’t do their penis justice, so they should probably just stop doing it!

It’s a massive turn off for me, none of my friends enjoy it either.

I don’t want one unsolicited. If we know each other and are exchanging sexy pics then it’s fine.

God I feel old! Not condemning anyone who does it (unless it's unwanted, of course), but this is so far outside my sphere of experience!

Wouldn't do anything for me, so I wouldn't want to ask. I've always presumed some women do ask, even if I don't get it myself! So it's interesting to hear the variety of responses here.

I've genuinely never had one, and now I've realised I'm missing out. All these years and no penis in my inbox.

I wouldn't like an unsolicited one, and actually would be very offended by it (and would make it known too).

The only dick pic I would want (or indeed have ever wanted) would be from DP, but he won't do it. Meanie

I got one from DH once. Taken at work in the loos (I hope). It was a huge turn on for me and I couldn't wait for him to get home.

Each to their own I guess.

Me neither @FudgeBrownie2019 ! Can't say I'm sorry. I did engage in internet dating in late 90s while it was still the wild West, but perhaps I've been lucky in being 'off the market' for 15 years!

I'd rather see a pic of his dog/cat tbh.

Yeah, pet images might actually endear me to someone!

I’ve never had one, even while internet dating. One guy asked if I wanted to take the conversation off POF and onto WhatsApp and I said only if he wasn’t going to send me a dick pic!

I wouldn’t mind one from DP but I’d rather have one of his face or his hairy chest. A video would be welcome, but just a photo of it, nah, I can’t get worked up about that.

Getting one from someone who hasn’t even bothered to strike up a conversation with you is the modern day equivalent of a flasher in a dirty mac.

I would be happy to receive one from my dh but defo not in a new relationship or even before. It’s grim!!

Only once properly involved romantically and both into it and I know, and have a rapport with and desire the owner of the dick. For me that stage never happened until a couple of months into being officially exclusive bf/gf, and also only if I ask specifically for them.

I am late thirties and have asked and received a few times before - me and now DH were long distance for a few months so that prompted it. Never appreciated an unsolicited one though and got my fair share on pof

Nope. Luckily I’m not single, or on social media, so haven’t experienced this new phenomenon.

If a man wouldn’t display his dick in a pub/restaurant/coffee shop/other public place then why do he/they think it’s acceptable to send a dick pick unless someone asked him to?

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God I feel old! Not condemning anyone who does it (unless it's unwanted, of course), but this is so far outside my sphere of experience!

Same here, it's beyond my comprehension why anyone would do that.

Not something I want to see without knowing the owner properly and having requested it. Certainly not on OLD.