Need a bit of help here

[C0rdelia]

I know it might be because I’m going into a new decade but I’m very unhappy in my marriage and job. I want to leave both. I need the money from the job to survive alone but I hate the job. I’m too old to find a new job (60+). Advice please.

What is it that you hate about your job?

New employee who is a relative of boss.

Oh dear that can be horrendous.

It's possible though that the relative might not stick with the job if they are disliked or even if they are young they might just move on.

Depending on just how awful it is at work I'm inclined to say that you'll have to suck it up and hold on to enjoying yourself when not at work. I appreciate that is easier said than done.

I want to quietly start selling clothes to raise money and slowly prepare.

The relative isn’t going anywhere, will take it over when boss retires.