I'll start off... I don't have many friends, I have three and none are a best friend. I see people talk about other people about how lovely they are, kind, caring, thoughtful, would do anything for anyone etc. Well I'm all of those things, I'm always ready to help somebody and often do good deeds, my problem is I do it, but kind of awkwardly (and sometimes anonymously). I'm just not a very warm person, I'm friendly and chatty and at the same time kind of aloof. I don't want to he like this, I'm just inwardly shy, but over the years I've learned to be outwardly more confident although I don't feel it deep down.
Can you teach yourself to be the kind of person people like being around?