Last period 11 weeks ago

[cjcmjw12]

Hi, I'm driving myself crazy at the moment! The start of my last period was 11 weeks ago and lasted around 4-5 days. I havnt been on any contraception for almost 12 months now and periods had become regular again. me and my partner use the "pull out" method, the one time that didnt happen and when i worked it out it was my ovulation day! Over the last 8-9 weeks I have had all the different symptoms of pregnancy but lots of negative tests! I am terrified of needles so can't bring myself to have a blood test If I'm not actually pregnant! Over the last week my tummy has started to bloat! I'm not the thinnest anyway but now I can't seem to hold my tummy in at all! Has anyone ever been in this situation? Surely after 11 weeks I should be getting a BFP if I actually am pregnant?

Make an appointment with your GP and get a blood test! If you are, you need to know ASAP. What does your DP think of your reluctance to find out soon rather than in another 6 months?

Not necessarily not pregnant a colleague of mine had negative tests all they way to birth. You need to see a doctor.

So I went to see the doctor today, they did a pregnancy test and it came back negative! Tried to do a blood test and i passed out so they wouldn't do it. They have basically said to me the test has come back negative so I'm not pregnant! I don't know what to do! Is it worth paying private for a scan to just be sure ?

I think you need to do whatever is it that will make you feel like you've got a 100% accurate answer.

Same situation for my colleague 21 negative pregnancy tests eventually sent for an ultrasound for IBS only to be told there was a 31 weeks baby in there. Don't be fobbed off they need to determine why your periods have stopped.