Feeling sorry for myself and could do with a virtual hug!

[pullthecracker]

I’m in the middle of separating from DH but he won’t move out of the house, last weekend I found a breast lump and have been referred on the urgent referral pathway for further investigations.
My two close friends offered me lots of support this week, but I’ve now got some sort of virus and feeling really rough. StbexDh is ignoring me so I’m lying in bed feeling ill, nobody to get me a drink or anything, and when I mentioned it to my close friends how rough I was feeling, the response was “oh well, you’ll have to be thirsty then if nobody will get you a drink”!
Want to cry and just want one bit of support!

Have a big hug from me. Really hope all will be well.

Oh poor you that’s crap. Can you drag yourself to the kitchen and make yourself a cuppa? Make one for him too but don’t forget to lick the rim of the cup first.

Oh that does sound shit, perfectly entitled to seeking random hugs! Sending to you!!

Thank you both! Lordprof that’s a good idea! Am aching all over and start shivering when I get out of bed.

Thank you Gogo!

Big hug for you OP

More hugs from me. Definitely contaminate his cup if you can get to the kitchen for a . Don’t forget to cough on him too

Awww have a big hug from me

That all sounds so rubbish. Sending you strength, hugs and a virtual cuppa!

Have a good cry, in fact do whatever your body and mind wants you to do. Soon you will hopefully not be living with your twatty ex so don't care what he thinks as you bang about and cough everywhere may just speed things up.

Thank you! I think I’ve coughed plenty round him in the last few days, so you never know!

That sucks pullthecracker, I hope you feel better soon and