Opinions please!

[Nevergotobedfangry]

Just a question. Kind of long, apologies.

Someone who is loud can be quiet yes but they are usually loud with talking and mivements. Moved houses and partner says person is getting louder when talking. Person disagrees and says that's how they talk. Partner says they're being loud because of the neighbour. Person again disagrees its how they talk. Partner then says person is always like that when someone lives next door. Person says they've always lived next door to someone so what's the problem?

Question is... Is the partner right? Or the person?

That makes no sense at all.

So your partner says you shout?

Have you had your hearing checked if you are getting louder and not realising?
It's one of the first things I notice when ds' glue ear is bad.

Eh?

I don’t know what you’re talking about OP.

Is there an impartial person you know in real life that you could ask?

Really, no one here can possibly tell whether the loud person really is getting louder.

PARDON?