Met up with a friend from work for a coffee to celebrate my promotion but I'm still cringing out after the meet up and don't think I'll meet up with him again. He has always been a little odd and socially awkward but otherwise a nice person.
But anyway, to start with the waitress forgot to bring our cakes, and he asked her quite bluntly "are you bringing our cakes or not?" When she said "they forgot them, sorry", he said "did they forget them or did you?". I could actually have died!
Then later on he asked to see a pic of my DS as couldn't remember what he looked like, I said I just needed to find a decent one, he then said "I've got to make sure you only see the decent pictures on my phone" as he showed me pictures from his birthday and I laughed "oh so you've got lots of indecent images on your phone then". Then he said "since you said you've got to find a decent picture of your DS that suggests you have lots of indecent pictures on your phone, and leads me to think you have child potnography on your phone!" Now he was giggling as he said this and clearly it was just a tasteless continuation of the joke but it wasn't funny at all and I was absolutely humiliated, I mean the last thing I want is for all the people in the crowded cafe to think I'm a fucking paedo ffs!
Then after an hour I made excuses to leave and said we better get the bill, to which he said "are you paying this time". I assumed we would split the bill and although it was s tenner I found this quite rude! So I'm quite disgruntled and embarrassed following this meet up. Safe to say I won't be meeting up with him for a coffee again! Not sure why I'm posting really, just had to tell someone because the whole thing is making me cringe! Don't get me wrong we did have a good chat generally, but those three things really put a dampener on a good chin wag!!!