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Am I being ridiculous, this happened 32 years ago!

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FunnysInLaJardin · 24/02/2019 22:18

Clearing out my mums house as she has gone into a home and I came across a photo album one of my old friends did for my 17th birthday.

In it there is a great photo of me, so I took it out to keep it. On the back my boyfriend of the time has written 'she is a whore'.

For some reason this has really upset me. Maybe it is just that emotions are running high at the moment, but I can't help thinking what a cuntish thing to write about his then girlfriend.

TBH I don't know why I still care, I haven't given him a thought in 32 years Confused

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ColdCottage · 24/02/2019 22:36

That's not very nice. Says more about him than you. Take a photo of the photo and burn the one with the negative words.

Then the photo is just about you.

SleepingStandingUp · 24/02/2019 22:38

Yeah def get a copy of it, then be glad he isn't your husband of 32 years x

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 24/02/2019 22:59

Well it may have been written 32 years but as you've only just found out. It might as well have been written 32 hours ago.
As pp says. Thank God you didn't go on to marry him. God help the women that did or may have done.

JRMisOdious · 24/02/2019 23:01

Of course you’re not, that’s really horrible.

FunnysInLaJardin · 25/02/2019 13:10

Thanks all, glad others think its horrid too. I will try and rub the writing off or otherwise just take a photo and chuck it.

I also thought what a narrow escape! I met my now husband not long after that must have been written and when I think how different it could have been I shudder at the thought. Mind you he was a bit of a twat so would never have married him anyway!

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KindergartenKop · 25/02/2019 16:01

In the words of Beyonce, 'thank God I dodged the bullet'.

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