It’s such an odd one. My first thought was that she was and then I wondered if I’m being too kind because she is a woman. It does seem to be a pattern that women involved in cruelty/abuse of children are always with a man who is involved in, and usually instigating it too. But these women must have something about them that wants to abuse their children. Or are they really at his mercy just like the children? In this case I just can’t tell. I don’t think there’s enough information about them to know.