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Purpleorange8 · 22/02/2019 00:44

My partner has called 20 mins ago to say he’s been in a car accident 😓 managed to get out of him that he is bleeding but he doesn’t know where. He said he is going to walk back to his work. Had a call from his family to say some of the passengers have been blue lighted to hospital. I am sick with worry, doesn’t help that I am a 5 hour drive from him. I honestly don’t know what to do 😭

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curtainpole12 · 22/02/2019 00:47

Wait a little while until your start freaking out, you ha e spoke to him, you know that his passengers have been taken to hospital so therefore he has also, call at 7am, either his mother/friends/the hospital.
But do not panic as you will not be helping him it you x

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Purpleorange8 · 22/02/2019 00:50

His family are all up north so they also have no idea what is going on. We have no information at the moment about what hospital he is in. All I want to do is jumping in the car but what use is that when I don’t know what hospital! Just overthinking everything at the moment 😓 x

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Mumbunsandhuns · 22/02/2019 00:51

Lack of information is so worrying too because your mind fills in the gaps. It’s good that you have spoken to him and his family, hopefully you will have more information soon that can ease your mind.

Has he gone back to work or into hospital?

Mumbunsandhuns · 22/02/2019 00:52

So sorry cross posted. Hang fire until you have the details then you can figure out a plan x

sideorderofchips · 22/02/2019 00:53

Hand holding here

Try and keep calm
Although I know it’s hard

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Purpleorange8 · 22/02/2019 00:56

I have work later this morning so feel like I should sleep but I just can’t. It’s the not knowing. Was such a blur the phone call, he was in complete shock so wasn’t making much sense

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2018SoFarSoGreat · 22/02/2019 00:57

hand and strong shoulder here. You poor thing. I hope you get some word soon.

Make a cup of tea, or something warm, and make sure your phone is charged, and handbag is ready to pick up if you do need to head out the door. Hope you get good news soon. Flowers

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Purpleorange8 · 22/02/2019 01:01

I am sat ready to leave if I need to, so much stuff going on and this morning has just tippled it all over

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sideorderofchips · 22/02/2019 01:01

Chances are you won’t want to work later so don’t worry about that now

Mumbunsandhuns · 22/02/2019 10:06

Hope everything is ok Flowers

curtainpole12 · 23/02/2019 19:40

Hope he's ok OP? it's been a while, sending lots of love x

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