Outwardly, I'm a pretty outgoing person. People at work would definitely think so. However, I have a fear that stops me from trying new things in public etc in case I make a fool of myself. It has seriously hampered my career as I'm afraid to take a chance on a job in case I'm not able. For example, I'd like to buy a horse but am too embarassed to try one in case the complete strangers selling it think I'm a complete fool and a spoofer. It's so ridiculous!! Anyone have any tips, books etc that can help?