Or whether you think down the line you may have split up any way or dp may have met someone else (untrustworthy partner or unhappy relationship etc)
I also wonder how much you blame the other woman/man?
Something I have personally always wondered and honestly I'm not sure what I think! 🤔 I find it hard to respect people that are fully aware that the other person is already in a relationship/marriage and still persues the other person but I guess it often a lot more complex than meets the eye! I would normally blame the person whose already connected in a relationship and has caused tremendous hurt on someone they are supposed to love!