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Have you ever left stuff on purpose at an ex’s/soon to be ex’s house...

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cheeky2019 · 28/01/2019 08:50

...just to have a reason to see them again?

Curious really. I’m breaking up with my boyfriend. Or rather I broke up with him last week, but now think I was too hasty but now he says it’s over. I went over 4 days ago and deliberately left some of my stuff there to have a reason to go back. We’re done but we’re not done if you are what I mean. That’s what it feels like which is why I left some stuff.

I don’t normally play these games. But I’m struggling to get over him. We were together a year. And I’m just wondering if I’m the only one to do this?

OP posts:
VanillaSauce · 28/01/2019 08:59

If you're breaking up with him don't play the 'pick me' dance.

cheeky2019 · 28/01/2019 09:00

Why? I broke up with him initially

OP posts:
VanillaSauce · 28/01/2019 09:26

Because its not fair on him to play games like that. If you haven't made up your mind about breaking up then you have an adult conversation. Leaving stuff at his house as excuse for you to hang around him is childish.

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