How do I let my distant friend know I'm there?
We were ridiculously close growing up until I had DS. She has always suffered from eating disorders but progressively got better. She's just dropped down again to about 4.5 stone, she's really not well!
Can someone help me with what words to even use in a message to let her know I can see that she's not okay and I'm here for her even now we aren't close? It's such a sensitive topic and I'm apparently so not clued up about it and don't want to say anything insensitive and use the wrong words, I've been wracking my brains for the last week!! She pushes people away really quickly so I don't want it to sound wrong or intrusive or rude or anything!