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Imposter syndrome

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politicalcorrectnessisgreat · 17/01/2019 21:28

My friend is claiming on social media to have imposter syndrome. Isn't it associated with successful people who feel they are not really what everyone thinks etc? She works in a shop, I don't get it.

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emandems30 · 17/01/2019 21:29

Ah you sound nice

PoliticalBiscuit · 17/01/2019 21:31

How mean spirited of you.

It's people who feel that despite the place they've found themselves in that they aren't worthy and have found their way through luck and that they're going to be "found out" to be a fraud. I know a woman who has worked in all manner of jobs and now works at a min wage job and still feels like it's a bit of a fluke why she was given the job in the first place.

GottenGottenGotten · 17/01/2019 21:32

That's one aspect of it.

I'm not particularly successful, but have suffered from it due to people trusting me to do a particular (fairly intimate) job when I was newly qualified. Thankfully with experience and posotive feedback I've mostly seen the back of it.

Sparklingbrook · 17/01/2019 21:32

So people that work in shops aren't successful. Right.

Boyskeepswinging · 17/01/2019 21:34

Have my first Biscuit

IhateBoswell · 17/01/2019 21:35

Yeah that “works in a shop” is pretty snooty of you.
Don’t be so dismissive of her job or anything else which is affecting her.

Sinead100 · 17/01/2019 21:35

And mine Biscuit

FaFoutis · 17/01/2019 21:36

Is it a posh shop?

RiddleyW · 17/01/2019 21:36

It’s not just related to work achievements.

politicalcorrectnessisgreat · 17/01/2019 21:59

I obviously have the wrong idea of what it means then

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