Just interested if introverts tend to get together with fellow introverts, or if there is usually a bit of a difference in partners? I think I'm an introvert but want to be more extrovert, and dh is very much an introvert. People all around us seem to socialise much more than us. Also how much do you think your experience as a child determines how you end up? My parents were a mix but socialised quite a lot, I found it quite awkward being made to mix with random children I vaguely knew.