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Please critique my wedding timetable

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BuffaloCauliflower · 12/01/2019 20:28

You lot are always great for pointing out snags in plans others haven’t thought of. I’d be grateful for some critical eyes on my wedding day timetable.

We’ve changed this plan so many times trying to get what’s best for us, best for our guests, and doesn’t cost more than we can afford. Current thoughts are as follows. This is for all guests staying all day, no separate evening guests.

2.30pm - Church ceremony starts. Hopefully late enough most people will have been able to get lunch in before coming. Ceremony roughly an hour.

4-4.15pm - guests get to reception venue 5-10 minutes drive away, assuming ceremony takes until 3.30pm, allowing for some picture taking at the church, some general faffing and possibly waiting for some people doing car ferrying to go back and forth a couple of times.

4.15pm - crisps/dips/nuts/olives. Drinks. Some entertainment TBC.

5.30pm? 6pm? (I cant figure this out. Is 6pm too long from arrival?) wedding breakfast, which is substantial sharers, hot fork buffet, mini dessert options - the food is really important to us and won’t be scrimped on.

7.30/8ish - speeches. Will be 4-5 of us speaking so needs plenty of time.

8.30ish - cake cutting, first dance.

9/9.30pm - Cheese (cheese wedding cake) laid out with crackers, naice breads, chutneys, olives, nuts.

Finish - Wrap up whenever, private land so don’t have to be out by any time.

How does this sound? What am I missing? Would you be hungry? Thanks all.

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nomorearsingmermaids · 16/01/2019 22:19

Op don't worry about the veggie food. Totally pathetic that some people can't imagine a meal without meat. I always assume those people are unimaginative cooks.

I say that as a meat eater.

I think your timings look fine. And I always really enjoy the speeches at weddings. Most of mn is incredibly snippy about anything to do with a wedding.

CoperCabana · 16/01/2019 22:23

As a guest, my worst case scenario would be big gap between ceremony and food, then speeches, then queueing up for a buffet in my glad rags. I can see why you are keen on a buffet (I am not a fan), therefore definitely minimise the time between ceremony and reception and please don’t do the speeches first. We went to one wedding with two mega long ceremonies and just one drink and snack to keep us going throughout. When they started with the speeches before any sign of food or drink, an audible grown was heard!

BuffaloCauliflower · 16/01/2019 22:31

Cheers mermaids

Coper there will absolute be food and drink before any speeches, just interesting to hear all the different thoughts. This is why I’m thinking mid afternoon wedding rather than the common 12.30/1pm’s I usually go to so there’s also more time for people to eat in advance. Only a few people will be very local to the wedding, but only a small number travelling an hour or more at the same time.

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dulcefarniente · 16/01/2019 22:51

Buffalo I mentioned the music because although most of the requests we had were chart/motown/80s classics some of the older guests asked for jazz tracks and easy listening stuff. Playing their requests during the meal worked well as they recognised the tracks, other guests barely noticed it and the disco was uninterrupted floor fillers. Everyone happy.

dulcefarniente · 16/01/2019 22:54

I sent out RSVP cards (with stamps already on) with the invites so that everyone could say whether they were coming and asked what their favourite track was so that we could compile a playlist for the evening.

BuffaloCauliflower · 16/01/2019 23:14

@dulcefarniente yeh fair enough. There’s only about 4 actually old people coming, and 1 of them would definitely also pick Motown, but I’ll bear in mind Smile

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GoGoGadgetGin · 16/01/2019 23:40

Possibly daft question... But how rural is it and is it accessible enough for taxis etc for afterwards or are people staying on site?

BuffaloCauliflower · 17/01/2019 08:57

@GoGoGadgetGin not rural at all. 5 minutes to major town. Many people will probably stay in nearby hotels as it’s easier - we’re staying in hotel 8 minutes drive away - some people may well go home.

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GoGoGadgetGin · 17/01/2019 13:03

Sounds excellent!! V close to what l would do if we did it again! What your loos like and will your dress fit in! Smile flashback to trying to squash into cubicle in mine with a looong train!

BuffaloCauliflower · 17/01/2019 15:24

@GoGoGadgetGin the loos will hopefully be a posh trailer of some sort, if I can’t fit in in my dress I’ll take it off 😂

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