Considering the number of posts that are made about parents struggling with their own children for two weeks/looking forward to school holidays ending, the stress that they are under from their children's behaviour, special needs, etc, I wonder whether the same parents always appreciate that those two lovely-but-annoying kids are then in a single room with 30 others and one person is then expected to inform,
educate,
entertain,
discipline,
make feel secure,
deal with disclosures about how Daddy hits Mummy or drinks himself stupid,
deal with ten kids with conflicting special needs that set one another off,
tears,
tantrums,
fights,
poverty,
children not fed properly,
kids that have learned from seeing how Daddy deals with Mummy that if you get your own way, you tell the other person how stupid, fat and ugly they are or punch them in the face,
kids who have learned words to describe the colour of other children in the class from their grandparents,
kids who already play Mum and Dad off one another using the same techniques to try and get 'fair' preferential treatment,
some who just want to learn and be happy -
and the natural instinct of many children to play up when they sense they have safety and strength in numbers.
In addition, over the years, they form attachments - they see the children every day, they know what they like, what scares them, how they feel about themselves or others. They might be in that child's life for longer than their father. They might be the one stable point in a child's life. They won't hit them. They won't spend their entire time on the phone or shouting at somebody else to keep them quiet. They might have to talk down a hulking 15 year old brandishing a knife, and then immediately go and teach a class where there are six kids who have issues with authority, medical diagnoses of conditions where they are explosively aggressive and wound up by the news somebody brought a knife into school, they might have to choose whether to put themselves physically between two teenagers who are the size and build of men or step back and hope help comes before one gets his face kicked in or a weapon comes out. (And then be informed by one of them that they're going to get them sorted out - knowing that the last time, it was Mum and boyfriend coming in, screaming the odds and that they Know People, or that an elder brother has gang connections and is probably due out of prison round about now)
When two children are fighting at home, it's horrible. Add in 300 others steaming around the site in packs taking sides, trying to stop you breaking it up because it's entertaining, trying to start satellite fights in support of the original dispute.
And at all times, the pressure is not to let the kids down, to get them all above average, FFS. Oh, and they've got to justify themselves to SLT and the parents. And Ofsted. And get the marking and lesson planning done. And cover other's lessons. Whilst being told they don't work a proper job and get a ton of holiday when they aren't actually paid for it and are probably in during most of it providing further free education to kids who didn't want to learn during lesson times until they finally realised they were going to fail if they didn't.
Yes, there are good things about teaching. But it is a different job to other high stress ones.