had a bit of a crush on someone who used to work where I used to work...
Came across him on a dating app. I would never have swiped whilst we were working in the same place just in case. (I know I am a wuss)
I know he might be an upgraded member of this dating app as I saw he was upgraded on another app... so if I do swipe him, he might be able to tell!
Although I no longer work in the same place as him I'm petrified of swiping right in case it shatters the illusion of fancying him and he doesn't swipe right.
I never plucked up the courage to speak to him in old place of work. He never seemed that interested but that said it was a huge place with tons of people in and out and there was never really the opportunity to chat if I am honest (plus I am shy!).
anyone got any advice? The worst thing would be for him to see I have swiped on him and not swipe back! my confidence is low anyway and I would probably take it personally. It's unlikely we will be in the same social situation again, as I don't get out much (LP).