Ok so try to keep up, it's a bit of a story ..... so I work in a school, I have soooooo much shit to deal with this year with people, I do not make friends easily. We've lived rural for 7 years now so it's not easy. Finally getting close to some girls at work. There was a party in the staff room at school and afterwards a few asked me to gl to pub. I wanted to go so text DH to say I could get a lift home at 8 (school night and rural living means lift required) this means car left in town for next day. I asked him to get his mum who was visiting to drive him and kids into town on way to ferry so they could take car home, this would be too much too ing and frowing he said.... so my lift offered when he dropped me off he'd take DH into town for car. DH said ok. Transpired DH is not ok. DH is very pissed of that DW went to pub after work ONE FREAKING TIME! We are normally an amazing couple, but we are in a huge fight over this . I'm away to tonight and feeling shit at the way we've left it, but, AIBU to think he is BU?