Husbands!
Been together 5 years married just over 3. We’ve been talking about wether or not we want to try for a baby. We decided to wait a year so we could do some specific stuff together without having to allow for a little one. But nothing major or that can’t be put off.
We’ve been using natural birth control (timing and pulling out etc) as a baby is in the pipeline at some point anyway if we’re lucky enough.
So anyway mid ‘doing it’ and I’ve told him it’s an ‘unsafe’ time (bang on mid cycle everything indicates I’m going to ovulate next day or so). It’s all getting pretty hot and steamy and he goes ‘I want to come inside you. Is that ok? If it happens now then it happens now’.
Really dear. Now is when you decide to raise this!
So anyway.... guess we’re in the two week wait now as any attempt at being ‘safe’ has totally been sidelined this month.
Now don’t get me wrong I’m not complaining and we are financially fine for a baby and been together long enough in a fully committed relationship.
Honestly I think I just want to roll my eyes and go ‘men!’ at his timing.