I am fed up being the only person in my house who...

[Rainatnight]

...ever fucking tidies anything.

I've had enough. Really I have.

I just needed to rant.

Anyone care to join?

..who flushes the toilet? grrrr

Changes the empty toilet roll ....argggghhh

Puts the pots away
Does the washing
Changes the beds
Empties the recycling

Puts socks in the washing basket.

Knows where anything is

All of the above x10

Is ever able to find anything

Yep I do the lot

Can I join in with the ranting too?!

Empties bins everybody else playsthe if it shuts it fits game

Makes the beds
Picks up wet towels
Deals with correspondence.
Turns lights off
Closes cupboards
Puts the bins out.

Cleans the fucking sink after washing up.
Cleans the toliet with bleach.
Does the recycling.

I'll join!

I'm the only one who does anything. I'm a sahm and DH works, therefore in his eyes he is exempt from lifting a finger. I accept I should do the lions share, but he is bone idle. I've been with him 10 years. He's never once cleaned or put a load of laundry in in all that time.

Aaaaaaghhhh, isn't it ANNOYING???

Does the garden poo run. By that I mean pick up the dog poo in the garden not do a poo in the garden.

He's never changed the beds, cleaned the bathroom once since we have lived together. If he didn't know I did it then he'd probably just assume the cleaning fairies did it. He does cook, wash up, do his own ironing, diy, and gardening though. Oh and he does the bins.

I'm sick of being the only one who notices stuff needs doing. Like the bin being full, or that the plants need watering, or the shower curtain has gone mouldy... I could go on but I'd end up ranting.

... NOTICES.

I am the only one who flipping notices. And can't relax until everything is at least roughly tidy. Which means, as the last one in, I don't even sit down until I put it all back in the right place. And they wonder why I grumble...

Any wet towels which aren't hung up to dry, are placed not very neatly on his side of the bed. Lessons are learned very quickly when there are negative consequences to actions.

...can open the door and take a parcel/food shopping delivery.

Flushes the toilet
Changes the loo roll
Charges the ipads
Switches electrical stuff off

Changes toilet roll, changes the beds, knows where things are.

Also, as a matter of course cooks, food shops, and meal plans, and makes sure we have a supply of things for packed lunches, etc.

Tidies anything
Puts washing away
Changes sheets
Puts towels to wash
Washes the frying pan
Clears up after cake baking.

@keepingbees

Genuine question, why do you put up with that? he's never cleaned or done any washing in 10 years?? he just doesn't help you at all? not even on a weekend?

Turns the Christmas tree lights on.