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Does alcohol do this to you?

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NotFeelingRight · 01/12/2018 17:15

after I get pissed the next day i feel so anxious! It's awful and I start imagining that I've said stupid things or offended people. It's so bad I'm considering stopping drinking.

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PodgeBod · 01/12/2018 17:15

That's called "the fear" or "beer fear" and lots of people get it when they've had too much

Justmuddlingalong · 01/12/2018 17:16

It's THE FEAR.

GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 01/12/2018 17:16

Beer fear.

SpoonBlender · 01/12/2018 17:19

You perhaps shouldn't be drinking so much that you're paranoid about what you've said and done.

Squeegle · 01/12/2018 17:20

It’s normal- alcohol is a depressant. But it’s not nice - I actually feel a lot better mentally if I don’t drink.

NotFeelingRight · 01/12/2018 17:36

spoon I don't drink that much actually but I start to fabricate what I've done if I've forgotten like 2 minutes of the night !

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Sausagefingers9 · 01/12/2018 17:38

Yes I feel so anxious about myself. Even just a bottle of wine sends me crackers, it’s got much worse the older I get.

I just can’t drink anymore really, not worth it for me!

NotFeelingRight · 01/12/2018 18:10

im due to go on a work Xmas night out next week and I might drive !

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Jellybean100 · 01/12/2018 18:11

Yes the fear is hideous. It actually makes me vomit the next day rather than the hangover I think!

FluffyMcCloud · 01/12/2018 18:12

Hangxiety! Totally a thing.

SoyDora · 01/12/2018 18:13

Yep, the beer fear. It’s awful.

Thisnamechanger · 01/12/2018 18:13

Is fairly normal OP, I get it too, although it's got a lot worse since I've got older. Sadly the only cure is to have a little less or if you are blotto, at least remember to text yourself "don't worry, you weren't a twat right before you go to bed Grin

BuffaloCauliflower · 01/12/2018 18:13

Yeh I call it hangxiety, it can be really bad sometimes and is one reason I drink much less now than I used to.

Kaykay06 · 01/12/2018 18:14

Never felt that but heard of it, sounds horrendous I wouldn’t drink if I did.
Just drink less and see if that helps

pizzapineapple · 01/12/2018 18:15

I definitely get hangxiety

Mich0027 · 01/12/2018 18:17

Sorry OP it seems to be an age thing. Late 30's it gets baaaad. I hardly drink now can't handle the hangxiety/ beer fear. 😭

Wolfiefan · 01/12/2018 18:18

You don’t drink much yet you drink so much you can’t remember what happened? You do drink too much then.

Secretsquirrel101 · 01/12/2018 18:20

‘Beer fear’
I get it something chronic, even if I only have one or two glasses of wine, and so am not even slightly pissed, it’s utterly bizarre and horrid every time. I don’t drink very often anymore purely for that reason.

Lobsterquadrille2 · 01/12/2018 18:21

In AA we call it the Four Horsemen: terror, bewilderment, frustration, despair.

Don't let it get that far!

waxy1 · 01/12/2018 18:23

I’ve always known it as alcoholic remorse.

NotFeelingRight · 01/12/2018 19:37

honestly my mind runs away with me. Ill be thinking I remember talking to Dave but what did I say lol. It's awful!

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ASauvignonADay · 01/12/2018 19:40

Yes big time. And I've genuinely done things that have really put me off drinking.

TheTurnOfTheScrew · 01/12/2018 19:41

oh god yes. Hungover Me really, really hates Drunk Me.
admittedly Drunk Me is a bit of a tit, but not half as bad as Hungover Me thinks.

Wellfuckmeinbothears · 01/12/2018 19:42

Yep, it’s awful. Mine isn’t so much worrying about what I’ve said/done while drunk but more just general anxiety and paranoia. Always have a rubbish nights sleep too. I hate it, really one of the worst feelings and a big factor in my cutting down to almost tee total on what used to my problem drinking.

NotFeelingRight · 01/12/2018 20:19

I'm defo driving next time lol

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