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MrsMyreton · 12/11/2018 00:55

DD up vomiting with what seems to be a delightful winter bug.

Anyone else around? Smile

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Shriek · 12/11/2018 02:38

Does it seem from the text that it's been going on before or just started?
It's sickening, I feel, for you. So sorry.

NameChangeToAvoidBeingFound · 12/11/2018 02:38

Fair @Shreik, I may be on a different dosage, most likely a different dosage because I'm an adult Grin I'm a bit thick this time of night haha.

Hopefully they'll feel better soon. Luckily I've a neb and oxygen tank at home, asthma can be terrifying for both the person having the attack and those that see them. My friends/housemates saw me having one and a couple of weeks later commented that it looked like I was suffocating on air and it was freaking them out.

The silent attacks are the worst ones. My mum and dad would take it in turns to sleep with me most nights when I was little or I'd sleep with them. Even now as an adult I get them so whenever I'm ill at all even if it's just with a cold I'll sleep on the sofa in my shared house because if it happens I'll have no idea but there's more chance of someone noticing or and being able to help or if I do notice I'd be able to get attention/help from their easier.

ILoveAutum · 12/11/2018 02:39

truebeliever

No. You don’t...I wish I hadn't looked at his phone

It would still be happening except he would be hopping between her bed and yours. Grim.

I’m sorry, but best you found out now what kind of a bastard he is. Do NOT fall for any pathetic excuses. There’s NOTHING he could say that would excuse that.

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Xiaoxiong · 12/11/2018 02:40

Ugh, hope all of us sickos feel better soon 🤒

Shriek why are you up so late? Asthma too? I had a week in hospital with pneumonia and pleurisy 4 years ago on nebs, just remember my heart racing like it was going to pound out of my chest - not fun!!

Adoggymama good luck for work tomorrow, you're going to be brilliant!

Shriek · 12/11/2018 02:40

I used to do that. I just couldn't sleep anywhere else due to worry.

Shriek · 12/11/2018 02:43

Xiao what's your name mean? No, no asthma for me. I have a condition that means I wake commonly in the night. I am just trying to get myself back into decent routine,but will still wake. Had a few nights of no sleep recently due to it, so just getting better each night hopefully!

truebeliever · 12/11/2018 02:44

@Shriek I got the impression it's just started and they haven't met in person yet.

@ILoveAutum I know you're right & he is gone. He will not talk me around. But I was so happy with him & I thought he was too.

AngeloMysterioso · 12/11/2018 02:46

@Shriek I don’t think it’s period related, not due for another week. Don’t think it’s my appendix either, groin pain is on the right hand side and just in the crease where the top of your thigh meets your pubic region. Sort of bikini line area I guess.

AngeloMysterioso · 12/11/2018 02:47

Groin is tender to touch as well, sort of feels like pressing on a bruise 🤷🏻‍♀️

AngeloMysterioso · 12/11/2018 02:49

Oh and a lovely big lump in left labia majora if anyone’s interested Blush

Xiaoxiong · 12/11/2018 02:50

Shriek it means little bear Smile I've taken three blue puffs now, hoping I can get back to sleep - hope you do too!

Shriek · 12/11/2018 03:05

Angelo does not bulge when you stand up?

Shriek · 12/11/2018 03:05

Does it bulge when you stand up?

Shriek · 12/11/2018 03:08

True he's still a shit, but at least he hasn't come back to you after being with her, yuk! You may get to beat him to the lost, by dumping him before he dumps you cos of meeting another.
Make sure you get yours in first. In fact I'd do it now and not wait. The prick.

Shriek · 12/11/2018 03:10

Thank you Xiao I wonder at anyone managing to sleep on salbutomol!! I've seen its effects and pretty dramatic. I know nebs push hate rate right up there.

Good job you have neb/oxygen at home. I often wonder about that Angelo

Shriek · 12/11/2018 03:11

Sorry Name got my messages mixed up..that last one was to you not Angelo

truebeliever · 12/11/2018 03:13

@Shriek thank you for listening tonight and your advice. Feel like such a mug again.

He texts me when he wakes up so I'll just reply: I know about ... come and get your stuff now.

The dcs will be at school and luckily it's my day off so it'll be done with before they get home.

truebeliever · 12/11/2018 03:13

Got to be up in 3 hours Confused but I don't think I can sleep at all

Shriek · 12/11/2018 03:16

Oh love, I bet. I know it doesn't feel like it, but it was a blessing you found out!!! Truly! Better now than down the line when hes being false and sleeping around whilst with you too.
I know, better to have not at all, but its clearly who he is. Was he free when you met, he didn't have a gf he was cheating on with you when you met?

Shriek · 12/11/2018 03:17

Heart rate...not hate ?!?!

truebeliever · 12/11/2018 03:18

As far as I know he didn't have a gf.

Shriek · 12/11/2018 03:21

You're not a mug! It's shocking the way a bloke cheating can make you feel this way. You're not the mug, he's simply an absolute dick. I wonder if she knows hes already got one and she's an addition. She's not a mug either, he won't have told her. He's an absolute prick. There will be someone who deserves you. Someone e who will be faithful, that's who you want

AngeloMysterioso · 12/11/2018 03:23

No bulging as far as I can see 😕 have just taken a couple of paramol so hopefully that’ll sort me out. Aching all over too!

NameChangeToAvoidBeingFound · 12/11/2018 03:24

Yup, I've done the 10 puffs thing so I can work (not currently at home) but I'm also stupidly drinking coffee so my heart is beating out of my chest, haha I can feel it in my ears and throat and my hands are shaking, but some paracetamol and dihydrocodeine will help a bit with the pain in my ribs. You learn to sleep through nebs and salbutamol, usually your so exhausted during and after the attack you basically pass out into a restless sleep. It's no fun being oxygen deprived or hyperventilating, it causes C02 build up and that gives you pins and needles in your arms and hands and feet toes and legs, plus the pain of what feels like a boa constrictor around your rib cage, lungs feeling like they're burning, your heart feels shuddery and then your throat tightens and you have gunk stuck between your lungs and pharynx that you can't get rid of so it just travels up and down irritating and closing your throat further which is why when you get to a point when your coughing you claw at your throat and neck, your diaphragm goes into overdrive and your start 'breathing' with your stomach and shoulders heave. It's terrifying and you feel like your gonna die and your in pain and you want help and relief but the other part of you is so exhausted you want to sleep and it to stop.

Then you get 'high' on the oxygen or neb because you can breath easier than you ever have and more often than not easier than you do day to day.

Shriek · 12/11/2018 03:26

You need to get that labia lump looked at though, pretty quick.
Glad no bulging. The gland in the groin is probably inflamed because your body dealing with a virus. It should feel like a pea, one on either side. Same as the ones in your neck. You're coming down with winter bug too it seems, yuk!

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