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Can I claim this back?

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Pidlan · 05/11/2018 08:35

I was meant to go on holiday with my partner. I am currently going through a divorce with my ex (we've been separated for ages) and he was meant to have our children whilst I was on holiday. However, the night before ex was meant to have them, he fell (drunk I reckon) and hit his head. He was taken to hospital overnight. I had to cancel my holiday.

He now refuses to go to his GP to get a note so that I can claim the costs of my holiday on the insurance. I have to write this off, don't I? There's no way I can get a note without his say so?

(I am repressing my rage in this post or I'd go on and on...)

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SimplyPut · 05/11/2018 08:37

It's not looking hopeful. Sorry.

CherryPavlova · 05/11/2018 08:38

No you can’t get a medical certificate for someone else.
Yes, you’ll have to write it off, I,think.
Bit miserable.

QuickPollPlease · 05/11/2018 09:08

OMFG I would be raging.

Wine for you.

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whatsthestory123 · 05/11/2018 09:34

What a tosser,if he wont do that then he should compensate you

Alfie190 · 05/11/2018 09:40

Could you ask your insurance compsny is there anything else they would accept like a statutory declaration?

Pidlan · 05/11/2018 09:49

Thanks all. I'll try that Alfie. I haven't been on holiday for 14 years, and have been scrimping and saving for this. He never even apologised.

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Bombardier25966 · 05/11/2018 10:00

Have you checked your policy to see if it covers childcare issues? Even with a medical note most cheaper policies don't offer that.

Awful situation though, can understand why you're fuming.

Pidlan · 05/11/2018 10:24

It covers illness of a close relative bombadier, and as we are still technically married...

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chickhonhoneybabe · 05/11/2018 10:27

If he was in hospital over night he’ll have a discharge letter. Will he give you that?

Pidlan · 05/11/2018 10:41

No chick. I asked him and he just refuses. Can't believe he's being like this- I thought he was so wonderful once.

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