Hi ladies also if anyone you have read my other threads you’ll know that I suffered from PND really badly about 2 years ago and my daughter went to stay with my mum and dad for a short while and then to live with her dad permanently (She was only meant to be with my mum and dad for a short while but decided she wanted to live with her dad in the end) so she’d been staying at mine 1 night a week. Now she’s decided she doesn’t want to stay anymore..... her dads given me 2 reasons why.
- She doesn’t like my dog, the dog doesn’t come in the living room he stays in the kitchen.
- I’ve got 2 more kids a 2 year old and a 3 year old very boisterous but just normal toddler behaviour. My eldest pulled her hair and my daughter told him off, my OH who is my daughters step dad told her not to shout at him as it’s mine and his job to do. That’s the part she didn’t like.
Problem is she gets her own way with her dad and when she stays at my mum and dads and doesn’t get this at mine so I think thats a big part of it.
I just don’t know what I can do there isn’t anything I can do about those reasons she given for not wanting to stay. I feel like shit. I don’t know what to do.