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Does anyone else's father reject them?

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Namechange8471 · 31/10/2018 08:46

Basically, I found my biological father through an ancestry website and managed to track him on Facebook.

I sent him a message along the lines of how are you, I think you're my dad etc.

And then he blocked me...

I feel so deflated, he's remarried now and has 2 more kids, he also doesn't have anything to do with my brother who I keep in touch with. I wasnt particularly bothered he had moved on, I thought me might of wanted a realrionshp that's all.

I'm 28 now with a child of my own, I finally plucked the courage to track him down, and nothing. I feel completely empty.

Has anyone had similar experiences?

I haven't told anyone about the rejection yet, I feel so hurt.

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Randomusername01 · 31/10/2018 09:07

Similar thing happened to me. But I accepted it as deadbeat dad continues to be deadbeat dad. My sibling didn't see it as such and it caused quite a bit of anger for them, and we can't really speak about it because if this.

Namechange8471 · 31/10/2018 10:20

Thanks for your input, I'm sorry you've gone through the same.

The hardest part is he used to have a relationship with my brother until he met his new wife, they'd go fishing etc, he's never acknowledged myself.

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