The sad helicopter crash this week reminded me of the crash that killed Matthew Harding (vice-chairman of Chelsea) in 1996. The tabloids were full of lurid stories afterwards about his secret mistresses and children and I was slightly obsessed at the time by Vicky Jaramillo in particular.
Googling it this week I found an article about his wife Ruth Harding from a few years later, and I had no idea how awesome she was. She allowed the mistress to attend the funeral, refused to bad mouth her and was determined that the children of the mistresses would be provided for. She seemed to have found a happy ending with a new man who sounded equally fab - https://www.thefreelibrary.com/amp/%27Only+after+Matthew+died+did+I+find+he+had+a+second+mistress+and...-a060959656
Then I wanted to find out what she is doing now and discovered that her second husband died of cancer not long after
www.theargus.co.uk/news/5132158.amp/
That poor woman (well not literally, she inherited £50 million). But what a sad tale. I hope she's happy now.
Just thought others may be interested to hear about her.