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OMG surely this is a joke?

130 replies

TwigTheWonderKid · 17/10/2018 17:32

Ladies & Gents?!

Or does everyone send their 8 year olds to this kind of class and I have been a negligent parent?

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Penninepain · 17/10/2018 17:35

Come up with 'page not found'?

Danceintherain2018 · 17/10/2018 17:46

www.thesunningdaleacademy.com/our-courses

DolceFarNiente · 17/10/2018 17:47

www.thesunningdaleacademy.com/little-ladies-1

Is this it? I actually think it looks quite good! Blush They have fun and learn to be pleasant, polite members of society!

MintRolls · 17/10/2018 17:48

The poor lad's eating off an empty plate! Must be well expensive lessons if you can't stretch to a few chicken nuggets and chips for the poot wee sods.

OMG surely this is a joke?
Cakecrumbsinmybra · 17/10/2018 17:48

That’s brilliant! 😂 I have to say, my elder DS could really benefit from it.

Disclaimer: we would never send him there but his table manners leave a lot to be desired and we are working on it.

wonderandwander · 17/10/2018 17:50

They offer exactly The same course for boys

www.thesunningdaleacademy.com/little-gents-1

They’ve just decided to do them single sex rather than together
I think it’s nice and my two would love (girl and boy)

BiggerBoat1 · 17/10/2018 17:50

Jesus! My 12 yr old DD would lamp me if I suggested she could learn how to be a "little lady".

GummyGoddess · 17/10/2018 17:54

As someone with autism I would quite like to have done this myself! Social skills would have been very helpful.

If we're correct and dc1 turns out to be autistic he may do a course Grin

GoneWishing · 17/10/2018 18:11

I could definitely do with that now in my 30s...

Nothisispatrick · 17/10/2018 18:20

I wonder why it’s the sunningdale academy when it’s based in Cobham. No such place in sunningdale.

Nandocushion · 17/10/2018 18:28

Here in US these classes are called Cotillion. A certain type of American really loves this stuff. I feel it's a bit like teaching your child how to behave when they're at the country club - it feels very suburban and outdated to me, but it's probably harmless. A friend of mine swears it civilised her 14yo son.

needsahouseboy · 17/10/2018 18:29

Oh I think it looks good. I’d love to send my feral 8 year old there, bloody doesn’t listen to me in regards to manners no matter how often I tell him.

IStandWithPosie · 17/10/2018 18:30

I think plenty of adults (Or rather, the adults that have to eat beside them) would benefit from going to these classes.

Urbanbeetler · 17/10/2018 18:34

The tough old state secondary in which I teach (where I love working) focuses quite a bit on manners, particularly how to shake hands and make eye contact. It’s been a good investment of our effort and time to be honest.

Urbanbeetler · 17/10/2018 18:35

We don’t advise them on wardrobes or how to greet a duchess though.

BillywilliamV · 17/10/2018 18:37

Given a lot of young people cant even ake eye contact, let alone conversation I think these courses are a stonking idea,

Partyfops · 17/10/2018 18:38

I would definitely send DD if there was one near me!!

Urbanbeetler · 17/10/2018 18:39

Take out the snobby edge and make it a bit more universal and it would be a fabulous day course for any kid.

BillywilliamV · 17/10/2018 18:39

But in Sunningdale, probably aimed at children of russian oligarchs who have to learn that not everyone can be pushed around like the Nanny.

continuallychargingmyphone · 17/10/2018 18:41

That little girl is adorable Smile

megletthesecond · 17/10/2018 18:46

I would pay for my savages to attend that course.

I was googling Debretts courses last week Blush.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 17/10/2018 18:46

I'd never knock manners and etiquette. However I don't believe in kids being turned into perfect little robots. Its just not real life Kids act up piss about, now and again. Its just a part of developing learning and growing up. I've never been blinked about mine

MickHucknallspinkpancakes · 17/10/2018 18:58

If they added the etiquette of learning to remove skid marks from the toilet bowl and how to flush I'd be shipping DS over for it in a nanosecond.

Luglio · 17/10/2018 19:02

God I think that looks really good. I wish I'd had access to some of that stuff when I was young, instead of having to teach myself through trial and error.