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Being a single mum should not be acceptable..

84 replies

cinderfrickingrella · 11/10/2018 19:41

How can a person running to be Mayor of London seriously do so with views like this?!

metro.co.uk/2018/10/08/single-mums-should-not-be-acceptable-says-tory-mayor-of-london-candidate-8017333/

OP posts:
headinhands · 13/10/2018 11:12

Women don't get themselves pregnant. Teach men to be responsible too

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 13/10/2018 11:18

FYI, Shaun, women don't 'get' pregnant. They are MADE pregnant. By a MAN. HTH...

PortiaCastis · 13/10/2018 11:36

The man thinks we all got pregnant with no male sperm, he's a twat

TopBitchoftheWitches · 13/10/2018 12:43

I'm a single mum at 41, because 5 yrs ago my abusive ex h finally left and moved in with his current partner. My children are all teens. I did not plan this.
Still we are treated like shit.

PortiaCastis · 13/10/2018 12:45

But the menz hardly ever get treated like dirt

ARoomSomewhere · 13/10/2018 13:23

I am now a single parent because i left my abusive husband.
When i tried to ask him to 'step up' when my children were born (ie look after them in a similar way to me, change nappies, feed them, talk to them when they were older, he hit me. You cannot 'educate' someone who is hitting you. For the sake of your children, you have to leave. It took me a long time.

Both of my children have SEN. I am physically disabled.
My 'lifetime award' of DLA (at the highest level) is being taken away (as its for the lifetime of the award not me). My blue badge will go too.

I have never had assistance with housing. Still don't. Am in cold and remote private rented and lucky to get that as a 'benefits scrounger'

PaulDacrreRimsGeese · 13/10/2018 17:20

If a young woman gets pregnant in London to get a council flat, she's not conversant with the state of social housing waiting lists.

MistressDeeCee · 13/10/2018 17:25

Being a single mum should not be acceptable

OMG you mean, immaculate conceptions are real?! No men involved in there being single mums? No such thing as a single father?

Who knew?

I can barely wait to vote for this bod, his intelligence is striking🙄

MissMarplesBloomers · 13/10/2018 17:32

Not that I hold out much hope he has matured at all but this was something unearthed from 2006 - any fool who goes into politics should know these things come back to haunt you.

OpalIridescence · 13/10/2018 17:47

I did everything right ( what all the good girls do, partner, marriage, babies) and I am still a single mother.

You cannot control another person they are either decent or not. Perhaps my kids should still live in a tense, angry and scared household so utter wankstains like this man approve of me?

Or maybe he could take it up with his own sex? No, better to berate the people who stayed and are doing all the hard work.

As it ever bloody was..

PortiaCastis · 13/10/2018 18:54

Social housing is virtually non existent here I was told there are 28,000 on the waiting list.

Weezol · 13/10/2018 19:03

Shaun should also be aware that, when he is running for London Mayor and he (or one of his team) edits his Wikipedia page to suggest his childhood was 'on a rough estate' in an attempt to look more working class/endz, people tend to notice.

Sarawish · 13/10/2018 19:35

Get pregnant and get a council house.

Really?

That ship sailed long ago.

NameChanger22 · 13/10/2018 20:42

He's such an idiot.

The only way any woman can be completely sure she won't become a single mum is to avoid men completely and never have sex again.

IAmAllAsttonishnent · 13/10/2018 20:56

He’s not wrong though 🤔 I know a fair few single mothers and have reads MANY posts on here ....and on the whole a LOT of bull is accepted!

It strikes me that those ‘Independent, professional and functional’ single mums arguing the case and taking offence A) aren’t the ones he’s talking about and
B) Aren’t very representative of ‘single mums everywhere.

If you have a career and are a functional single parent great, but let’s not pretend there aren’t 19 year olds getting knocked up in the back seats of VW Corsas’ in McDonald’s car parks to guys they barely know...who have no business bringing a child into this world.

IAmAllAsttonishnent · 13/10/2018 20:57

*V

VladmirsPoutine · 13/10/2018 21:02

@MissMarplesBloomers That was certainly once the case but we have entered a new era in which any sense of shame of one's past misdemeanours is non-existant.

These days it seems to be the case that doubling down on one's 'radical' views appeals to the partisan nature of our political discourse. So for every reasonable person that sees Shaun Bailey's views as stereotypical scapegoating non-sense; there'll be plenty that think they've finally found their voice and their true representative in Shaun Bailey.

Bicyclethief · 13/10/2018 21:08

IamAllAstonished what you said.

PortiaCastis · 13/10/2018 21:11

Bloody hell the demonising of women and teenage Mothers is disgusting, I was a tednage Mum so yes I'm pissed off

PortiaCastis · 13/10/2018 21:12
  • teenage
Queenofthedrivensnow · 13/10/2018 21:13

Another single mum here. 2 degrees and I own my own home. He can shove that up how arse. I was raised by a single mum too.

Mumofwyatt14 · 13/10/2018 21:14

Hmm** I couldn't agree more

SoftSheen · 13/10/2018 21:16

Being an absent and irresponsible father should not be acceptable.

Shortyboo · 13/10/2018 21:20

This guy is an idiot. He’s not worth listening to

ingenvillvetavardukoptdintroja · 13/10/2018 21:31

Teen pregnancy has plummeted in the last 15 years so this is hardly the cause of the housing crisis.
Thank god single mums step up and raise the kids when the dads can't be assed.

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