I am now a single parent because i left my abusive husband.
When i tried to ask him to 'step up' when my children were born (ie look after them in a similar way to me, change nappies, feed them, talk to them when they were older, he hit me. You cannot 'educate' someone who is hitting you. For the sake of your children, you have to leave. It took me a long time.
Both of my children have SEN. I am physically disabled.
My 'lifetime award' of DLA (at the highest level) is being taken away (as its for the lifetime of the award not me). My blue badge will go too.
I have never had assistance with housing. Still don't. Am in cold and remote private rented and lucky to get that as a 'benefits scrounger'