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Original poster

When counting how many people you’ve had sex with...

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PolkaDoting · 09/10/2018 20:12

...who do you include?

Is it just people you’ve had ‘full sex’ with, or do you include people you’ve done full on rude stuff with but without PiV?

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WhentheRabbitsWentWild · 09/10/2018 20:18

Well .

Personally I include those where full sex took place

buscaution · 09/10/2018 20:19

It's not something I count Confused

WallisFrizz · 09/10/2018 20:19

Full piv sex

DustyMaiden · 09/10/2018 20:19

Same answer 1

WallisFrizz · 09/10/2018 20:21

Buscaution...really...you’ve never in a moment of idleness/boredom/nostalgia totted up your number?

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PolkaDoting · 09/10/2018 20:23

buscaution Yay for you! Grin

I think in my 20s I would add on the ‘nearly men’ to make myself feel more worldly.

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hugoagogo · 09/10/2018 20:23

Um yes just actual sex, I think.
It was all a v long time ago.Grin

PleaseJustSayNo · 09/10/2018 20:33

So what full on rude stuff would constitute enough to be added? Fingering/being fingered is NOT the same as having sex with

FunSponges · 09/10/2018 20:34

Actual piv sex. The other stuff doesn't count for them being added to my pathetically low number.

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PolkaDoting · 09/10/2018 20:35

Oral?

Rimming?

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PolkaDoting · 09/10/2018 20:36

Sorry, that was in response to PleaseJustSayNo I wasn’t just saying oral and rimming just for the hell of it!

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Hedgehogblues · 09/10/2018 20:36

well seeing as I've had sex where there were no penises involved I don't just count PIV sex, no

WhoGivesADamnForAFlakeyBandit · 09/10/2018 20:38

And are we talking full PIV until orgasm, or would just a quick pump count?

ElectricMonkey · 09/10/2018 20:39

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PolkaDoting · 09/10/2018 20:40

Well mine was ‘inspired’ by one of the others.

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CherryPavlova · 09/10/2018 20:40

Why count?

Crunchymum · 09/10/2018 20:40

How does one end up rimming someone or being rimmed without it ever leading to or involving PIV sex?

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PolkaDoting · 09/10/2018 20:41

I recon a quick pump counts.

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PolkaDoting · 09/10/2018 20:44

Crunchymum umm, both of you being really, really drunk and him wanting to stick his tongue up your arse.

Was great actually Smile

But at a work conference so never saw him again so never got round to ‘full sex’.

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hugoagogo · 09/10/2018 20:46

A "quick pump" Grin GrinGrin

TheClitterati · 09/10/2018 23:09

I've never counted either. Not a clue.

36degrees · 10/10/2018 04:04

PIV mostly, with the exception being famous people, who get an honourable mention for anything more than a firm handshake.

Bloodybridget · 10/10/2018 06:27

Yes as Hedgehog said upthread, if you only count piv, lesbians never have sex at all!

HarrySnotter · 10/10/2018 06:43

Oh I don't like the sound of someone sticking their tongue up my arse at all.

DragonGoby · 10/10/2018 06:46

For me it's the same number. I've snogged other men but I haven't done that kind of stuff with someone I haven't slept with.