DH sent dirty pics & videos???

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Wondering if anyone else's DP or DH gets sent dirty pics or videos from 'the lads', I think it's so repulsive he got sent 'funny sex videos' a while back, told his mate straight and it stopped happened again today through a Different friend but this was different pictures of women older and young posing, naked and like home made sex clips of young couples so not even 'funny videos' just straight up sex. My DH blocked him but AIBU to tell him to do this?? These men have daughters what is wrong with them, not to mention if I didn't trust my DH I'd be asking him if these 'lad mates' were really other women

My dp used to be in a WhatsApp group and one or two of his divvy mates used to send TONS of shit like this, he used to hide the group and eventually left because it did his head in and they auto saved to his camera roll, he weren't interested in it and can't say I was worried!

I’d tell him to be bloody carefully, does he know how old the ‘young couples’ are? He could end up in a lot of trouble without realising...

'Telling' your dh to block these lads isn't achieving much as you want him to think that it's vile and needs blocking, not for him to just do as he's told for a quiet life. But yes, it is horrible. Are you sure he's not part of it and giving you the more palatable story?

@SleepWarrior no without going into to much detail he had a very rough childhood with his parents cheating and beating each other, he can't stand this kind of stuff he doesn't even like porn just turns him of, I told him to block him because the phone was downstairs and I saw the pics etc first. He would never want that stuff on his phone because DD watched YouTube on it and he's went mad at another friend for sending that stuff a few months back because of this.

I just find it repulsive these men have pics of there DD on WhatsApp and send this stuff around

@SixToEightInchesOfSnow they defo older than 18 but I said that to you never know how old these girls are and the pics as well how do they not know this is a pic someone sent to their partner and they have shared it without permission... it's just wrong