Ok me and my partner have been together for 20 yrs we have 3 children all over 18 i adopted the older 2 not that it should matter but there you go
My partner has had strokes ive nursed her through them.
Last year i found out ahe was cheating kissing men in clubs and admited to oral with a guy she used my oldest child to hide this. I was devastated is an understatement i couldnt deal with it and i left, she begged me and prommised it was over so we started going on date nights again after a couple of months i found her sexting guys on a website i pretended to be someone else and she sent me topless pics.
I confrunted her again and she swore it was becouse i wasnt living in the house she was lonely i tried to understand and said we will work through it.
I went home last week she always hides her phone so when she went to sleep i checked it i found cam conversions and dirty pics sent to this guy again
Im gutted i love this women but she doesnt seem to understand thats talking to men or kissing guys at a club is cheating
Im begining to feel like im going out of my mind
I hate that i felt the need to check her phone
Im not perfect by any way lol but im open and here to talk i just hate texting
I love my family but im stuck on my own she has my youngest my 2 older kids have moved out my son doesnt talk to her i feel this is breaking my family apart
I just need someone to talk to ive lost most of my family over the years
Thanks
Justanotherguy