Have you had a big relationship turnaround?

[tigercub50]

I think I may have posted something similar before but I wondered if anyone has survived a crisis in their relationship or been through stuff that might have broken less strong people but are still with their other half? I still think I’m dreaming sometimes because DH has changed so much in the last couple of years & I love him more now than when I married him because of that. I’m definitely not the same either (in a good way). I had to go to some very dark places & should never have been treated in the way I was but my experience taught me a lot about myself & what I want/deserve.

Anyone up?

Just the same for me. It's good isn't it.

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Same here.

It's very rare but yes I'm the same. Me and DH have been through hell and back multiple times and have come out stronger each time, every other couple I know wouldn't have made it past the first 18 months.

It's about being mature and having self respect/worth. Being able to understand that you also have bad traits and focusing on fixing them and not just blaming your partner. Working together to fix whatever problems you are having is the only way to have a healthy relationship.

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