Looking for advice, first time poster. I was planning on meeting up with one of my best girlfriends tonight and was going to let her in on the big news that I’m 3months pregnant, as I’ve kept it quiet so far. Ironically she’s just had to cancel as she’s been in a&e and found out as a shock she’s 4wks pregnant. She’s in a comfortable situation just hadn’t had it in her game plan till next year or so. Should I just stay shtum now as she’s in a bit of shock and simply offer sympathy or would it be a good idea to go ahead with saying that I’m in the same boat, to offer some empathy and solace?