C section and shapewear

[4men1lady]

Hi..

I’ve recently had my fourth child and third section so as you can imagine I haven’t been left in a very nice state.
I am due to be a bridesmaid soon and although I am on with exercise and sensible eating, I was hoping someone could recommend shapewear that actually works.
I’ve tried Spanx before but they don’t seem up to the job. I almost need lifting up and then in. Is there such a thing that could do this even a little bit?

Watching with interest as I haven't found anything in the last 20 years that does anything other than give a smoother line over existing bumps and lumps. nothing has actually held me in and reshaped like the advert suggests they would.

I had 3 c-sections and long ago gave up on ever being able to wear skin tight anything due to the overhang. I am sure that if I lost loads of weight it would diminish but I'm in the healthy BMI range so would have to get underweight for this to happen.