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Laura2308 · 17/09/2018 16:35

Uh hiya, so I am not trying to get pregnant or anything of the sort and I know i should’ve used a condom and i usually do but i suppose this was more of an impromptu-didnt-have-time situation.
I was with my boyfriend, and as he pulled out to finish, I unknowingly sat back on afterwards (sorry for tmi!!) and so i fear there was some on the tip that could’ve gone inside of me - this was on monday 10th september.
On the wednesday following that we were having sex and during i noticed a very tiny bit of “blood” - it was more brown than a look of period blood, and later that evening there was more in my underwear so i assumed this was my period.
I usually expect my period around the 19th/20th but instead it came on the 12th, and was pretty much finished by the 15th which is abnormal for me as they would usually last for the full 7 days and be heavy. I’d noticed I’d been really bloated compared to usual but just assumed this was because i was on my period! I have also expereince some headaches but it’s difficult to tell as I’ve been ill the last few weeks with cold and flu and all the rest of it.
Is there any way i could be pregnant ? As i’ve read about “implantation bleeding”, I haven’t had any cramps or anything like that. Thank you!

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Laura2308 · 17/09/2018 16:40

Oh - and I will also add, I’ve been having mood swings etc but also just thought this was due to my period

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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 17/09/2018 17:26

You've had unprotected sex so Yes there is a chance you could be pregnant. We can't give you a yes or no.
I'm not going to lecture you. I'll assume you're not stupid so I'm not going to start going on about how unreliable the pull out is.

Laura2308 · 17/09/2018 18:30

I’m usually really cautious and so as you can imagine i’m regretting thinking it would be okay for “just this one time” but definitely learnt my lesson just from there even being a scare

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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 17/09/2018 19:49

Have you thought, Chloe that MAybe deep down, in the depths of your subconsciousness you want a baby or you would have never have taken that risk.
I'm adamant as is dp that we don't want any more children. There for no condoms no sex. It's not negotiable.

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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 17/09/2018 20:00

Who me or Chloe

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SoyDora · 17/09/2018 20:12

Have you taken a test?
You had unprotected sex so yes, you could be pregnant. But you’ll only know if you take a pregnancy test.

Sparklingbrook · 17/09/2018 20:16

This happened just a week ago?

Laura2308 · 17/09/2018 21:27

yes just a week ago

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SoyDora · 17/09/2018 21:34

In which case wait a week and take a test.

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