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Want to totally change my life up - help!

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Slinginbrew · 16/09/2018 10:46

Hi everyone,

Through some recent difficulties (DP starting contact with his daughter at the birth mother’s house and us going through two miscarriages) I’m feeling really lost and a bit hopeless in my life. We have put having children on hold for a bit while everything gets sorted out, which has sort of opened up to me how I’m feeling quite empty in my life.

I want to change more or less everything, my fitness, get a proper career instead of just a job, I dream of owning a home (hopefully with DP, we were saving towards it but not really discussing it at the moment and it feels uncertain with everything going on). Would love to make new friends, get a hobby etc etc...

To those who have done it or have fulfilling lives, what next?? I don’t know where to start and it feels overwhelming - HELP! 😃

OP posts:
ItWentInMyEye · 16/09/2018 10:50

Saying 'birth mother' isn't going to go well on here 😬

Slinginbrew · 16/09/2018 11:24

Sorry I didn’t know that was an offensive term, I apologise

OP posts:
Slinginbrew · 16/09/2018 11:26

Just didn’t want people to think I meant his mother or anything! Sorry!

OP posts:
Atalune · 16/09/2018 11:27

Retrain in what?

Join a gym and do an induction, set some goals and ask for a fitness plan. Stick to it.

Eat 3 vegetarian meals a week.

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