How long would it take?

[BigfluffybearBum]

If you didn't contact your friends first how long would it take for them to contact you?
I always seem to be the one who contacts first and I've wondered if I left it would I ever hear from any of them again

are you me OP? this is how i feel and currently i am testing this out

Hahah I feel like testing it but would that be a bit passive aggressive?

I tried this out with someone I thought was a good friend, I've been waiting 1 year 9 months so far...

I'm so fed up of getting nothing back

Me too, big..... ahh well their loss

Ooh don't know - I usually contact them first but they're busier than I am and I don't mind in the slightest. Quite long term friendships though and they're a distance away.

Bum I expect you'd hear from them but on their own timescale, if that makes sense. E.g. my best friend from uni has children, works full time, lives in London and we don't catch up that often. Doesn't mean we don't care about each other.

I work full time, have a teenager and am pregnant so I'm pretty busy