(NC'd for this)
DM passed away last year. DB handling commissioning a plaque (lawn cemetery) and has suggested a wording with "sorely missed".
As soon as I saw it, it jarred in my ears as having a slightly "off" tone 
My suggestion is "sadly" - seems better.
I have a feeling it's a moot point, as DB seems to be telling rather than asking, and I haven't the energy to argue. But I'm curious about the MN verdict ?