Sorry, another would you leave DC home thread!

[Serendipity09]

Two DS's age 19 and almost 15.
We're going to France for 3 nights. 19 year old doesn't want to come, that's fine, he's stayed home while we've been on short breaks past couple of years.
But 14 year old wants to stay with him this time.
I'm in two minds. They are sensible boys, probably just sleep, eat and play video games to be honest! Grandparents 15 mins away who will pop in etc. Fab neighbours who they could call on.
But leaving a 14 year old for 3 nights while I leave the country is playing on my mind!
Would you??!

Yes I would 100% leave a teenager at home with a sensible adult.

Yes. Have done, obviously different ages to yours and under different circumstances.

I didn’t think about seeking approval as I know my kids better than anyone else.

Your kids will enjoy peace and quiet 😁

If you can trust them not to have a party, then for three nights, absolutely. Maybe not for a fortnight admittedly

I think it's fine.
You can arrange to check in with them GPs by phone daily and GPs could always stay after the 1st night if either of you have concerns

I actually lived on my own from that age as both parents moved out. So yes it's perfectly ok for a 14 year old to look after themselves for a weekend!

Can you try them alone for one night first?

It’s fine! They’ll be fine. Go!