Help

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ok so, I had a miscarriage beginning of this year in around may/June 2018 at 8 weeks :(.
I have just found I am pregnant again which wasn’t a surprise, but me and my boyfriend are meant to be getting a mortage in 12 months and we can’t afford to have both. He would rather have the house first then try for a baby because he doesn’t want the baby to affect our chances of getting the house as he wants the child to be brought up in a home etc. So he kinda wants me to have a abortion, in a way I agree but I don’t really want to at the same time.

If I did would it affect my chances of getting pregnant and carrying full term in about 12 months when I had a natural miscarriage too??

There is currently no reputable study that has found a link between having one abortion and being susceptible to future miscarriages.

You are no more or less likely to have a future miscarriage by aborting this pregnancy.

However, you need to think about how you would feel if you aborted this pregnancy and then struggled to conceive again in the future?

Also I have just found I am pregnant again which wasn’t a surprise, but me and my boyfriend are meant to be getting a mortage in 12 months and we can’t afford to have both. is a bit worrying/confusing, if it wasn't a surprise, were you trying? Why were you trying if you had plans for the mortgage?