what should I do???

[Lovelylady007]

I’ve been with my partner for just over 18 months he is lovely, kind, caring and brilliant with my children .... every now and then (roughly 4 times now) he has accused me of cheating ... he says he sees things on me that make him feel this way ... bruises are the main one recently he said it was because I have piles ... I just don’t know what to do my head is all over the place he is so attentive and supportive 99% of the time but this just ruins things.

Tell him you want to hear no more of this nonsense. He is putting your relationship under threat because of these accusations which he's making without any evidence at all! Lots of people have piles ffs! Maybe you should accuse him, and see how he likes it!

I’d run, he’ll only get worse.

He's taking the first steps of trying to control you with his groundless accusations.

Soon you will be fearful and worried about upsetting him, walking on eggshells to make sure he doesn't get angry, hiding who you really are and what you think in order not to anger him.

The honey moon period is over now, you are starting to see the real him. Do you want to live your life in fear?