So many to catch up on!
Isleepinahedgefund what do you put them in?
dementedma you literally pull the backing sticker off the sheet so it's easier for small fingers to pick up the stickers themselves.So you start at a corner and then peel off the whole thing around the shapes of the stickers.
What does the scrunching do TitzillatheHun?
gesu, instead of catching them when they're being bad and ticking them off, try and catch them when they're doing something good, kind, helpful, thoughtful, and praise them.
DSS has been driving us nuts not flushing the loo or turning the light off. Moaning about it wasn't working so when he did remember I'd make a point of saying well done. Also assuming he's done the right thing, rather than assuming he's forgotten works. So "you've flushed and turned the light off haven't you" said with a smile, and then if he hasn't he says "oh, I'll do it now, sorry" rather than "why haven't you done it" and him getting stroppy or defensive.
Yesterday his sister was tired and he gave her his blanket in the car, not for praise, just to be nice. So I said that was kind and thoughtful, thank you.
Sounds really simple and a bit silly but it's changed my mindset and I like them a lot more when I'm purposely looking for examples of how lovely they are rather than dealing with how annoying they can sometimes be 