If anyone is thinking this sounds familiar there was a similar thread which prompted me to start this one. It's dhs 40th soon and he would hate a surprise party, however if I hired somewhere and invited close family and a few old friends I thibk he'd like it. I'm thinking somewhere in York would be central ish (were all northern). Am wondering about a pub with a function room and getting caterers. Would any do this? How could it all work?