I have had enough of my dcs on this holiday

[MozzchopsThirty]

I've just left dd(22), ds(14) and ds (9) in the room
They seem to think it's hilarious to complain about everything, fight, shout, scream and generally play up
I told them if they didn't start behaving I would speak to airline tomorrow about going home and they all laughed so I've left them

I'm utterly miserable

I do have adhesions due to 2 hideous surgeries about 9 years ago
Maybe they're hiding the ovary that's gone awol 🤷🏼‍♀️

I know we haven't met but I get what is going on.
I think you might need a poo😶
Codeine constipated me terribly. Created loads more pain and the full feeling is a bowel full of stuff going nowhere. I recognise it.
And I get bunged up after a fl8ght.
It won't solve much but might make you ore comfortable.
Are you having a hysterectomy?
I can't recommend it enough.
I had fibroids and endo. Life was miserable then had the lot out. hrt takes care of symptoms and I don't feel like shite anymore.
Keep talking. I am at home with a 11 dd who is part vampire and not likely to appear anytime soon

oh OP, I took my 3 kids away by myself in february and it was utter hell. They were all bastards to each other and to me constantly, especially my eldest.
Never again. You have my sympathy

Oh no I'm pooing so badly that I can't stay in bed in the morning
I get up and it's like the world falls out of my arse!!!

I've only taken paracetamol and brufen so far as I know the codeine will bung me up
Although that may not be such a bad thing

They boyf is still being evasive and not replying to messages 😥

I'm not sure you can but heroin over the counter in rural Italy

Mozzchoops30...you could ask? No harm. Someone's Nona might be a mafia capo..looks can be deceiving.

What's the deal with the fella?
Does he go radio silence as a rule?
Bless you.
Bum, back, boyfriend, brats and belly all giving you bother. It really sucks being a woman sometimes.
My eldest is 25 and the other one is 11. I took them to Spain with my mum in July. I can guarantee you and anyone else who will listen it won't be happening again.
The fuckers

@lolaflores I'm so glad it's not just me
It's such a hideous waste of money, I've noticed that most of the kids round the pool are either crying or arguing with siblings

There should be somewhere you can dump your kids for 2 weeks whilst you go on holiday for some fucking peace

The boyf went away last week with his kids, mates and their kids. He phoned me every day for the last 4 days and would text regularly and send pics.
He's been v quiet whilst I've been away, I can only assume it's work stress (owns the company) and he doesn't have time.
When we're both in work we rarely communicate during the day as both just too busy

Am afraid I did lose my dignity and swore at my eldest. Am not proud of myself and am gutted I couldn't control myself!

@Patelen01 I have also lost that dignity

I also pinched 13 year old as he wouldn't let go of 8 year old

It is beyond hard sometimes

With each of mine I have slapped them once. To my eternal shame. I never thought I was that parent but I got the bounds of my capacity. Doesn't excuse it but explains it.
Mozzchoops30 is you are in pain, worried and exhausted that is a lot to deal with in the face of kids being arsey

I also pinched 13 year old as he wouldn't let go of 8 year old

😂

"Look at us. Look at what they make you give."

It's a line that's repeated twice in the in the Bourne trilogy. I really relate to it, is all.

Best of luck op.

I have been invited to Thailand in November, air fare only needed
I wasn't going to go, and I have no money but am seriously considering just hammering the new MasterCard and giving everyone the finger 🖕🏻

I'm waiting for the mnetters who ruin everything to come on and accuse me of assault 🙄
I think that may tip me over the edge

OP it sounds awful. I remember age 15 spending a whole weeks holiday to France with my folks in a massive sulk, I just wanted to be with my friends.

I even found a diary entry from that week saying truly horrible things about my mum as she hadn't let me buy some tacky high heeled stripper type shoes that I had seen at a market stall. I feel awful about it now, what a twat I was.

Hope you feel better soon

Took mine away twice earlier this year. Both times they were bastards.
I swore never again but I dont want to stay at home either.
Technology really has fucked up peoples lives. Worst thing is mine both went away with school as well and behaved impeccably.
Twats

I would like to put my parental slapping against the real physical assaults I received from my mother. Most memorable was being cornerened inn the kitchen as she threw every saucepan in the house at me. And the kids.
When she ran out of kitchenware she threw all the shoes she could find.
I don't remember what if done. I think I was about 10.
Tjere are levels of physical

The kids do just want to Hang out with their friends and dd 11 had a brilliant time on her school trip but with us looked as though we had kidnapped her.
So I want be bothering anymore

I totally sympathise, I didn't want to go on holidays with my teens this year as to be honest I just don't enjoy it. It's full of hype to have a great time and in the end they fight or moan and the don't start me on the moodiness. Every time we go anywhere the first things they ask us for the Wi-Fi code. We actually didn't go away this year as one didn't miss going on holidays one bit. Hope the rest of the week is better.

Im only doing haven or butlins next year.

But everyone appears to be having an amazing time on fb 😉

I had a horrible holiday with mardy DS who is 13. I felt the same as you, I don't work hard for this shit. He was a complete dick.

I am counting the hours until I get home