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I need my friend

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Dontwanttobutiwill · 25/08/2018 00:11

My closest friend and I haven't spoken properly for over two months now. It's not that we had a fight or anything, she's just been dealing with some stuff and hasn't been up to talking much. She did hurt me a bit in the process though (I'm not angry with her). I finally heard from her this week, an apology, but I haven't heard anything since my reply.

I have a big decision to make at the minute and it's causing me some stress. I don't have anyone to talk to about it. I'd love to talk to my friend about it but I don't think I can. Even if I could, I don't think she'd be up to giving me advice. But I still would just really love her to listen. It wouldn't really be fair to ask her to do that though when we haven't spoken for two months and I hardly even know what she's going through. I just need her.

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neurotransmittens · 25/08/2018 00:19

Contact her to say you would to talk about something and that you miss her company. See what her response is. Regardless if she’s going though stuff right now, she can’t read your mind so if she doesn’t know you need a shoulder of support or a sounding board, she can’t help. Make contact again.

neurotransmittens · 25/08/2018 00:21

Confused late night typing.

like to talk about something

Jackyjill6 · 25/08/2018 06:28

I don't know what to say really. If your friend is going through something really big she may not have the headspace to listen.

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