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You'd think I could figure this out myself but I can't. Nanny here all day tomorrow, what happens about food?

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OrchidsAreSlags · 22/08/2018 13:39

I have a regular childminder/babysitter person and tomorrow they've very kindly agreed to look after the DCs at my house all day, as a one off, because I have a work event I can't get out of.

What should I do about food? Should I make the DC's lunches and leave them for her to give to them? Should I leave food for her, or will she bring her lunch with her?

This is such a non-problem, but I've never had a nanny type arrangement before so I don't know what the etiquette is!

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Di11y · 22/08/2018 13:43

You should feed her, or at least offer and leave food for her. Packed lunches sound good unless she'll be on a trip and eating out. Let her know in advance do she knows not to bring anything unless she wants to.

Feltcushion · 22/08/2018 13:43

You leave food for them all which she prepares. You feed her as well.

NoSquirrels · 22/08/2018 13:44

Ask her what she'd prefer you leave, for her and for the kids?

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LastOneDancing · 22/08/2018 13:44

Pizza and salad. Oven chips if you're feeling fancy.

Nanny sticks them in the oven. Low faff, everyone gets fed.

Blowninonabreeze · 22/08/2018 13:44

I had this recently.
The problem is the informal arrangement.

Because it wasn't likely to be repeated and therefore I wasn't setting a precedent , I made the kids food that morning, when she arrived I showed her where the kids food was and showed her a couple of cartons of soup I'd left in the fridge and invited her to help herself.

user1483387154 · 22/08/2018 13:45

Leave food for all of them. She can cook for them all

MiddlingMum · 22/08/2018 13:47

Just ask her today, then there's no problem tomorrow. But start by assuming you'll provide food for her. That's what we did when we had a full time carer here.

OrchidsAreSlags · 22/08/2018 13:47

Okay thanks! I'll get some pizzas in. Sorted.

Last time she babysat for us I left her money for a takeaway delivery but I can't really afford that this time.

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