Possibility of moving to another country has been brought up. The problem is, it would be a house that would need totally redcorating and part renovating but would be livable. (almost farm like land too)
It would be in a country where I can't speak more than a few random simple words, but my sister and bil would be 3hours drive away (fluent).
It would be me with a 2year old toddler who I'd want in some sort of play group/social setting on a regular ish basis, and a 3 month old. And two dogs. Possibly our poultry too.
Dh would only be able to make it to us every (maybe other) weekend.
Unsure on the car situation, would assume I'd eventually get one there but would only be in a small village with a few amenities in the meantime.
But it would be the start of our dream life in 5-7years time.
Would you take the risk?